My good friend Danica has a Harry Potter club and decided to rent out a theater for the club and her family + friends to see Fantastic Beasts. It was such a fun evening to watch that amazing movie with friends!

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I am the type of person who wants to set up the Christmas tree right after Halloween. But I try and hold off for at least a week! I just love the magic of Christmas so much, I don’t understand what the big deal is to extend the holiday as long as possible! Eva obviously is the same way and I let her get a little tree for her bedroom. She picked out the whole thing and we’re both in love with it!

And the bottom picture is another wreath I made! You just string the bulbs onto an old wire hanger! Easy peezy!

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November was so nice, so we took an afternoon and spent it at the zoo with Eva’s cousins. All the animals were out and it was the first time Finn has been to the zoo and actually cared! He loved all the animals, it was so cute watching him take it all in. We even got to see them feed the elephants. What a beautiful Fall day!

I’m looking at these pictures and suddenly realizing why Finn probably was sick so much this month… Just some monster kisses to the otter statue at the zoo. Annnddd of course, being the great mom I am, I took a picture of it before telling him to stop. Agh!

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November was BUSY. I don’t even know where it went or what we did, but I know it went fast. I worked a lot for my dad and had a bunch of other projects going on so I didn’t blog much at all, so here’s my attempt to catch up! Here are some clips from the month that need documenting.

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Eva learned how to “do the splits.”img_0329

These two started playing together a lot this month. Finn simply adores Eva and Eva loves all the attention. img_0324

Finn got a new haircut, and once again looks like a big boy!img_0323

We went to the museum with friends one afternoon. It’s crazy how Finn now can play in most of the areas. His favorite game: putting things into things, aka balls into holes, stuff in the garbage, food into his mouth.img_0322

Finn sat in the little ball place at the end of the ramp for a while… it was so cute.
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Here’s Doc McEva. She used to want to be a vet when she gets old but now she wants to be a TAP DANCER! Dream big, girl!img_0320

My old young women’s president released a book and so we went to her book signing! img_0319

I let the kids get in the special cart at Harmon’s. Needless to say, Eva was thrilled. Finn also loved it, but was too distracted by the wheel to take a picture.
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November was unseasonably warm! We went to the farm several times. Finn loves the goat just like me!img_0317-2

Here’s my almost-five-year-old on the big horse! Finn rode his first pony that day too, but mid-ride, decided he was done.img_0314

One day, Finn had a terrible diaper rash, which was his first (Eva had them all the time as a baby but Finn has never had them). He finally stopped crying when I let him walk around the house naked.img_0313

This was from the same day. He was in such pain from the diaper rash, he wouldn’t nap. But he eventually fell asleep on me, which was pretty much the best.img_0305

We went on lots of walks around the neighborhood, pushing this boy around in the bike.img_0304

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Our ham, always trying to make us laugh!img_0300

We checked out the new play area at the mall. He was so proud of himself, getting to climb and sit up on that rock!img_0301

We went to the mall with our buddies and the girls loved sitting in the chairs and pretending this was their fort. Cute girlies!img_0299

I put Finn in TJ’s old outfit. Unfortunately, it’s a bit small now, but he still looked adorable.
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My little monster!

Spoiler Alert

You’ve been warned!

I grew up watching Gilmore Girls. Rory graduated from college the year I graduated from high school, which was pretty emotional for me at the time. She was getting ready to move into a new world just like I was. I loved the fast moving pace of the show, the quick dialogue and the whit of Lorelei. I loved the special bond of Rory and Lorelei, how they seemed to be best friends. I loved Emily and Richard. They obviously had their issues with Lorelei at times, but there was always something so special about them as grandparents, especially Richard.

There were things that, of course, I didn’t love about the original series. I feel like I need to share this with you as well so you know that I don’t hold the show on a crazy high pedestal. Although I didn’t mind the character Christopher, I didn’t love that they had them get married in the 7th season. I didn’t love that it took so many years for L&L to get together but then they threw it away over stupid stuff. I hated how Rory lost her virginity (and who she lost it to). I hated how the show sometimes made us love Logan and how sometimes they made us hate him. Sometimes the writing was poor, the show was a little crazy and loud. But overall, I love it. It’s up there with The Office for me. Whenever I need a show on in the background (and TJ’s not around-he can’t stand how much they talk in the show), I turn it on. I’ve literally watched it countless times and feel like I know the show inside and out.

So, all that being said. I clearly was ECSTATIC about the return of the series. I knew its couldn’t live up to the original series, but I couldn’t wait to get immersed back into that world again. I have SO many thoughts about it all, so for my fellow fans, please comment so we can discuss!

  1. I love how they handled Richard’s death. I knew this part would be so hard because unlike most shows when people pass away, the character who played Richard (edward Herrmann) actually died several years ago. I’ve always been a big fan of his since he was in the Longfellow Motab Christmas special. But I love that they were able to show parts of his funeral in a flashback and tribute him in some of the greatest ways, especially having Rory write her book in his office. I loved that they were able to bring some humor to the situation with the HUGE painting Emily had of him, and then loved when Lorelei saw the regular sized painting at the end.
  2. Flashbacks to the original series. When Rory walked through her grandparents’ home and you saw them having old conversations and saw her Grandpa sitting at his desk… I lost it. So tender. So sweet.
  3. The seasons. I thought this was pretty cool for the most part, especially since the original series always referenced the seasons and decorated for them quite heavily. I was a little confused at parts because it seemed like not much time really had passed in the story, yet we were in the next season.
  4. Too much filler. I was annoyed that we were halfway through and not much had happened. They really should have cut out so much crap (I literally fast forwarded through the whole stupid Stars Hollow play), and then spend more time on stuff that mattered. More wedding, more Jess, more Emily. I don’t know, some filler stuff, just shorter scenes of that, you know?
  5. All the old characters. I loved Paris. She was awesome. Seeing Lane was also fun and the rest of the gang. We didn’t need to see Mr. Kim though, that was a plot hole in the original series that didn’t need to be fixed. I loved seeing the old college gang of Logan’s. That scene dragged on a bit but I did enjoy it. Kirk was hilarious. OOOber was amazing. Ms. Patty, Babette, Taylor, I just loved them all so much. I do wish we could have seen Liz and TJ though. Oh, and I could have done without April. The answer is NEVER APRIL. She was terrible in the original series and just as bad in the new episodes.
  6. Team Dean/Jess/Logan. I’m glad they only had Rory run into Dean, that they didn’t have a relationship. Because let’s face it. He was always the literal worst. I wish Jess was in it way more, that they DID have a relationship, but ending it with us knowing he still loves her was not bad. I’ll just get my Jess fix over at This Is Us to make up for it. Now, as for Logan… I really did like him in the original series (except for when he was a D-bag occasionally). So I was okay with him being in this so much, but the way he was in it, not okay. Both Rory and him were in relationships. It was so wrong and slutty. I really hated it. And they weren’t even happy. It’s because wickedness was never happiness, guys. And yes, I did just quote the scriptures when talking about Gilmore Girls.
  7. Emily’s storyline. I loved it. I loved this part probably the most. To see her character grow so much after Richard’s death was amazing. I laughed so hard when she read that book about tidying up because my friend Danica just read that book and I got lots of stuff she was getting rid of. I thought it was interesting she gave counseling a try since she said once in the original series how their type of people don’t do that, but maybe she realized how much she really needed guidance and change in her life. I was nervous at times they were trying to make her have alzheimer’s so I’m really glad they didn’t take the story in that direction. Everything about how they wrapped up her story was just perfect. And ps-she looked AMAZING.
  8. Lorelei’s storyline. I thought her acting was pretty good. She looked great and was pretty much the exact same Lorelei I used to know and love. Oh man, when she said she didn’t want to keep walking with Rory because she had already gotten her steps in… such a funny line and relevant to our time. Totally been there before! I was disappointed at first that she and Luke hadn’t gotten married, but then realized that meant we could possibly see them get married in the show. I thought it was perfect that she decided to run off for a little bit when she was going through all that stuff with Luke and Rory because that totally was how she was in the original. Remember when she ran away when dealing with Max? I’m also glad she actually didn’t go hiking because that, however, wouldn’t have been like her. It was so much better for her to go look for coffee and have that moment when looking at the view. Then to call her mom right at that moment. Fantastic. I kind of was wishing her greatest memory with her dad had something to do with the dollhouse of hers, but that’s okay. This was good too. She was able to patch things up with her mom, Rory, marry Luke, expand the Dragonfly. Good job writers with this part.
  9. Rory’s storyline. I already mentioned this a bit back when talking about Logan. But yeah, I really hated her storyline. Fortunately, it was redeemed a bit in the 4th episode. She finally got a grip of her life a bit, but still not much. I hate how she pretends to be such a great girl but actually is really terrible, sleeping around, cheating on her boyfriend, treating her bf terribly. She’s just selfish and worldly. But I was happy that she saved the newspaper in Stars Hallow and wrote the book called Gilmore Girls. I started pretending that the original series was actually what Rory wrote, which was fun.
  10. Now let’s talk about those last couple words. Those dreaded words. First off, no, I don’t think there will be more episodes. I wish there would be more, but I think if they were going to do it, they would have already started working on it. Honestly, I was loving the 4th episode so much. It finally was redeeming these new episodes, because I wasn’t in love with 2 or 3, and so finally… it was all coming together like I hoped it would. Rory started getting her shiz together, she ended it with Logan, Lorelei figured out what she should do about the Dragonfly, getting to see Sookie, marrying Luke, Emily’s life concluding perfectly. But then, after we are all so happy for getting to see that dreamy wedding of L&L’s, Rory has to ruin it like usual with her sub-par acting and telling us she’s pregnant. Really, writers? REALLY? She didn’t learn from sleeping with Dean when he was married? You spent the whole original series all about how Lorelei, a single mom, wanted to give Rory this new, strong, perfect life just for her to THROW IT ALL AWAY BY SLEEPING AROUND (WHILE CHEATING) AND BECOMING A SINGLE MOM HERSELF? Look, I’m all about having babies. I love babies. But she’s not even in a stable relationship. I’m SO sick of hollywood trying to demolish family values, telling us traditional families don’t matter. They do. Ugh. That’s a little bit of a tangent, but I’m just annoyed how they had her come full circle, because that’s not Rory. And it’s also a little bit of a slap in the face from the writers. Like, look… no matter how hard you try… you can’t change your circumstance. You’re going to end up just like the rest of your family no matter what. Dumb. So dumb. They just wanted to have us end on a cliffhanger so people would talk about it. I rewatched the 4th episode, and when she was asking her dad all those questions about how her mom raised her on her own, if it was the right thing to do, etc, I originally thought she was asking because she was doing research for her book. But now I’ve realized she was asking because she was trying to figure out what she should do in her own life. Anyway, I’m annoyed. I think it’s Logan’s. I think Rory (if the show were to continue) would raise the child by herself (or get an abortion, because I could see the writers doing something terrible like that), just like her mom because that’s kind of how the writers (I’m pretty sure it’s just one writer actually, right?) like Rory being-just like her mom and very strong-willed even if it’s to curse herself.

Those are my crazy thoughts. I haven’t even read through this guys, I’ve got to get wrap this up and head out for a bit but I’m too eager, I just want to share and discuss, so please ignore all my grammar mistakes! Comment comment comment, please! But not on Facebook, I don’t want to spoil anything for anyone!

A week ago in Sunday School, our teacher asked us when was the last time we wrote down a spiritual experience that we have had and if we have any experiences that we haven’t written down, but should. I thought about it all week long. What experiences have I had that I haven’t written down? Something I want to remember forever and want my children to be able to read one day. Something that maybe one of you all need to hear?

First off, I had one thing instantly pop into my mind that I haven’t been able to shake. Back when I was about 19 or 20, I’d go home in the summers and attend the singles ward with my brother. At the time, we didn’t really love going because we didn’t know many people, but I did make two memories there. The first thing was just funny. There was a man who bore his testimony and pounded SO hard on the podium saying something like, “Have you ever been so mad…” I don’t even remember what else he said, but he was passionate that day! The second memory is something that is so simple but so dear to my heart now. We would urge each other to go up and bear our testimonies. We called it “rock the boat.”

“Are you going to rock the boat?” We’d ask. “Only if you do it first.”

Those Sundays were good ones. And as Andy Bernard says, “I wish there was a way to know you’re in the good old days before you’ve actually left them.”

Then today, I was still thinking about spiritual experiences or memories that I wanted to write about when I realized one was enfolding right before my eyes. It was Eva’s primary presentation today, where all the children (there are probably 80 of them in our ward!) sit on the stand, each say something and sing all the songs they’ve been working on each year. Watching Eva sit up there as an almost 5 year old is touching, itself. To realize I have this real big kid who is brave enough to say a line into the microphone in front of everyone and to sing loudly, proudly, smiling and waving at me through the whole presentation… it’s just incredible. I’m truly blessed. But there was one song that stood out, and specifically one verse that sincerely touched me.

We have been saved for these latter days
To build the kingdom in righteous ways.
We hear the words our prophet declares:
“Let each who’s worthy go forth and share.”
I instantly felt the Spirit when I listened to these words, sung by my daughter and all the other children. They have been saved for THIS TIME. This critical and difficult time that we are living in. They were saved because they have the capabilities to be strong enough to make it. We need to be good examples for them. Teach them, show them the way. So that they can carry the gospel throughout the world. When I see all the hatred going on this week, all the riots, the crazy election stuff… Eva and Finn will be immersed in this world so soon and have a lot to bear. They are such precious spirits and God has entrusted them to us. I hope I can be a good enough mother and follower of Christ so that they are ready for what is to come, and that they one day can “go forth and share.”

We turned on photobooth tonight and had a little too much fun! I know this is an embarrassing video (plus terrible background noise and image quality), but I don’t really care. I’m just so grateful for a family with whom I can be completely goofy! PS-TJ said I could publish this, don’t worry! #relationshipgoals right here, guys. Not to sound like the girls on The Bachelor, but I love this man!

If you follow me on instagram, you probably saw my post about reading a new Christmas book to Eva each night (most of them are from the library) and then wanting to review them here. We finished our first batch and wanted to share:

img_0008-13 The Golden Christmas Tree: Yeah, we were not fans of this book. I can’t even remember what it was about, that’s how lame of a story it was.

img_0001-13I Love Christmas: This one was cute but for a younger audience than Eva’s.

img_0002-9Little Bunny Finds Christmas: I loved this one. The repetition and flow of the book was well done and the story was simple and sweet. That night in Eva’s prayers, she even mentioned some things she learned in the book. Very cute!

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Reindeer Christmas: I enjoyed the classic Christmas illustrations in this book and the rhyming was also cute.

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Santa Claus and the Three Bears: A Christmas twist on the Goldie Locks story. Eva really liked this book.

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The All-I’ll-Ever-Want Christmas Doll: I thought this one looked interesting but it was for an older age group than Eva’s because it’s set back during the depression and Eva just didn’t really understand.

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Looking for Christmas: This was the first Christmas book we read this season and it made me cry because it was such a sweet message. The snowman is searching for Christmas and on his journey, gives all of his belongings to woodland creatures that need it more than him. It was such a beautiful yet simple message. It’s only $5 on Amazon, so get this one!

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I took Eva and her buddy to the movies on $5 Tuesday… we had the theater to ourselves!

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After dance class, Eva sat down and said, “Mom, take my picture!”
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We met up with cousins in Provo and the kids loved throwing rocks into the stream.img_0085-2

Finn was just the cutest at a family wedding. Seriously. I’m obsessed with him.
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My big girl!img_0091-2

We went to our friends’ house for the premiere of The Walking Dead and their little girls made these “Survival Kits” for us. It was the cutest/funniest thing ever!img_0093-2

Finn loved swinging on the monkey bars at the new play area at the mall.img_0094

… as did Eva.
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Loving those chickens at the farm
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We checked out the new City Center Park in Orem… it’s amazing!img_0134We (well, 99% TJ) carved pumpkins with my sister-in-law and her family on Sunday. My contribution was baking the seeds.

October, you were amazing. You started in Disneyland and ended on Halloween, can it get better than that? You were just too fast! It’s going to be Christmas before you know it, and yes, duh… I’ve already started listening to Christmas music! Thanks for a great month, we packed you to the brim!

On the actual day of Halloween, we really didn’t have much planned except for trick-or-treating in the evening. In fact, I had TJ take the car, so we were pretty much stuck at home. But I felt like we couldn’t just hang out at the house on Halloween! So, we met up with friends at Zaxby’s for lunch (kids ate free if they were in costume-Finn was a “bunny in a pumpkin patch” and Eva was a cat!) and then because Eva, last minute, wanted to be Elsa, I threw together Finn’s costume while he was napping. It was actually pretty fun getting his costume ready to go and getting Eva all dressed! She looked so cute with her whole costume on! TJ came up with his costume-he was Sven, the reindeer from Frozen. I was going to be a wolf from Frozen (remember, wolves chase the sled?) but the makeup didn’t turn out as planned, so I went as the cat again. We trick or treated in our neighborhood and Eva was running around like crazy. She did up and down the street with some buddies in the time that our group barely went up half the street. It was so funny! We ended the night by visiting TJ’s parents to show them the kids’ costumes.

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